Comparison Is An Avoidance Tactic

𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜.⁣

And it’s total bull shit.⁣

Listen, it’s normal to feel jealous and a little competitive. That “grass is greener” type of stuff is inevitable.⁣

But if the compulsion to compare is so often for you, that it’s getting in the way of running your business - the empathy I have for you won’t last long.⁣

And that’s because you’re letting your ego 𝘸𝘪𝘯. ⁣

If you were to really put yourself out there and hear crickets, your ego would be bruised.⁣

If you were to really not give a f*ck what others were doing or what they thought of you, you could be susceptible to their judgement or their rejection.⁣

So it’s easier to compare, it’s easier to focus on what’s 𝘯𝘰𝘵 working for you and what 𝘪𝘴 working for them.⁣

𝐑𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐚 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 - jealousy about what someone else is doing or what someone else has is your way of saying that you think they’re happy, and that’s what you want to be.⁣

With your business, you’re seeing what someone else is doing and making it mean that you’re not good enough, so you don’t even try.⁣

The remedy? Just f*cking do the thing. Mute and/or unfollow, take a big deep breath, and go take a shower because #showerthoughts are the best creativity inducers 🤣⁣

But seriously, stop using comparison as an excuse to not get your shit done. There will always be other humans existing and doing their thing. Don’t let it stop you from doing yours.⁣ ✨


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