What If You Just Fully Fucking Accepted Yourself?

I recently hadย a client ask how she could change the habit of sleeping in, in order to become her highest self.โฃ
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Instead of giving her tips like creating an evening routine so you go to bed earlier, listening to subliminals while you sleep, rewarding yourself for waking up early - I asked her what the big fucking deal was with sleeping in.โฃ
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I encouraged her to ask herself what she was making it mean that she was sleeping in. ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต: Society tells us that sleeping in is lazy. But is that objectively true?

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We realized that she actually was a night owl, and was just shaming herself for not doing her work earlier in the day - even though she got plenty of work done when she slept in and worked in the afternoon/evening.โฃ
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My question to her, and to you, is the same.

๐—ช๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ? โฃ
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Your problem is that youโ€™re living under the Butโ€™s - But if I let myself sleep in, I wonโ€™t get any work done. But Iโ€™ve never had that kind of luck before. But my ...

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This Is What I Call The Other Shoe Effect

This Is What I Call The Other Shoe Effectย ๐Ÿ‘Ÿ

When youโ€™re subconsciously pushing away good-feeling experiences in your business because when you feel good, your internal alarm goes off, letting you know that something bad might happen.

So you subconsciously push away success or feeling good, because youโ€™re worried that something bad has to happen as a result of your happiness.

This might look like - not celebrating after a good launch or signing a client, feeling the need to overwork and โ€œdoโ€ more when things are feeling calm + easy, or spending more money than youโ€™re making once you start hitting higher months!

Itโ€™s important to remember that your brain is always trying to keep you safe. Itโ€™s job is to scope out danger when thereโ€™s uncertainty or when your โ€œguard is downโ€.

Work on proving old stories wrong, consistently grounding yourself and your body, and practicing better feeling thoughts that wonโ€™t take you down the shame spiral ๐Ÿค

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You Are The Author of Your Story

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐š๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ซ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ.โฃ
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You decide what you give meaning.โฃ
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On the playground, I found out a boy in our class liked me. Another schoolmate turned to me and said, โ€œWhy would ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ like ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ?โ€โฃ
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I wondered what it could possibly be. My hair, my face, the clothes I wore? I settled on what made sense to me - the fact that I stuttered.

I decided that this boy wouldnโ€™t like me if he got to know me, because then heโ€™d realize that I stuttered, and that was the worst thing about me.โฃ
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I carried this story with me everywhere I went. I grew up with this story.

It loomed over me like a dark cloud.โฃ
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I made every no, every rejection, every side sneer, every negative interaction ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ง that I was incapable, unworthy, unintelligent, unlovable - all because I was a person who stuttered.โฃ
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Youโ€™re the same. You have something that you lean towards when youโ€™re not getting your way. You have something that youโ€™ve decided makes you unworthy, incapable, unintelligent, unlovable.โฃ
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Your ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  is charged...

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Comparison Is An Avoidance Tactic

๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐ง ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ.โฃ
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And itโ€™s total bull shit.โฃ
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Listen, itโ€™s normal to feel jealous and a little competitive. That โ€œgrass is greenerโ€ type of stuff is inevitable.โฃ
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But if the compulsion to compare is so often for you, that itโ€™s getting in the way of running your business - the empathy I have for you wonโ€™t last long.โฃ
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And thatโ€™s because youโ€™re letting your ego ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ. โฃ
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If you were to really put yourself out there and hear crickets, your ego would be bruised.โฃ


If you were to really not give a f*ck what others were doing or what they thought of you, you could be susceptible to their judgement or their rejection.โฃ
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So itโ€™s easier to compare, itโ€™s easier to focus on whatโ€™s ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต working for you and what ๐˜ช๐˜ด working for them.โฃ
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๐‘๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐š ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž - jealousy about what someone else is doing or what someone else has is your way of saying that you think theyโ€™re happy, and thatโ€™s what you want to be.โฃ
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With your business, youโ€™re seeing what someone else is doing...

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What If My Family & Friends Judge Me When I Start Showing Up Online?

Letโ€™s say youโ€™re a Mindset Coach who uses human design in their business.โฃ

โฃIf you grew up around people who used human design often and who thought running a coaching business from social media was the norm, you wouldnโ€™t be constantly questioning if they think what youโ€™re doing online is weird.โฃ

โฃAnd thatโ€™s because your paradigm, which is defined as a pattern of being or a model, is different than what theyโ€™re used to.

And typically, people who arenโ€™t committed to mindset work or personal development arenโ€™t actively changing their paradigm.โฃโฃย 

Thereโ€™s nothing wrong with what youโ€™re doing, itโ€™s just ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต from the paradigm that the people around you have used to.โฃย 

โฃWhen youโ€™re around people who get what youโ€™re doing, whether thatโ€™s in person or online, itโ€™s less likely youโ€™ll question if what youโ€™re doing is ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต or ๐˜ธ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ.โฃ

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โฃ๐‘๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ญ ๐š๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ž: The value of my services doesnโ€™t change based on whoโ€™s looking at them.โฃ

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So, even if someone from high school is watching your ...

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Fear of Judgment is BS | Imposter Syndrome

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Hello. Hello, and welcome back to The From Imposter to Empowered podcast with me, your host, Jill, and if you haven't gottenThe From Imposter to Empoweredย course yet, what are you doing? I just did a launch for it, and this is my signature imposter syndrome course. If you're somebody who has really been struggling, but you're not quite ready to work with a coach, you're not ready to make that investment, this is for you.ย 

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I have made a low ticket course for you to dig your hands in and get all my high level tools such as NLP, the rejection template and all of this amazing stuff. And it's basically my 10 step signature methodology and how I help my clients through their own experiences with imposter syndrome and all the things that make them feel not good enough. We do a ton of subconscious work and it really is amazing. Because I love my loyal listeners, I am giving you guys 15...

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