Something That My Best Mentors & My Best Clients All Have In Common

๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป?โฃ
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They all become theย #WorthyWomanย version of themselves, over and over again, to achieve the next goal and the next goal and the next goal.โฃ
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โœจ They have habits and rituals that they stick to.โฃ
โœจ They actively work on changing the negative voice inside their head to one of empowerment.โฃ
โœจ They surround themselves with people who get it.โฃ
โœจ They are always embodying and acting from the highest version of themselves.โฃ
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These are money-making activities ๐Ÿ’ธโฃ
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Your identity, your thoughts, your beliefs - theyโ€™re influencing the way you see your business, which affects your behaviour and creates your results.โฃ
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If your thoughts were a cake, what would the result be when you took it out of the oven?โฃ


Your childhood unicorn birthday cake (๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ)?โฃ


Or is it lopsided, messy, and not exactly what you were going for (๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถโ€™๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ)?โฃ
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๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚โ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ...

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Are You Fully Showing Up As Yourself?

Have you ever heard/gotten results for yourself & your clients and still felt like a fraud?โฃ
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I have to ask - are you fully showing up as yourself?โฃ
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๐๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž-๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ-๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง-๐๐ž๐ฌ๐ข๐ซ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐›๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฎ๐œ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐š๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ. You donโ€™t feel good enough or capable enough, so you mould your personality, your actions, your services & prices, and your IG stories to please the masses, hoping not to be outed or criticized.โฃ
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Youโ€™ve gotten so used to ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ - judgement or criticism or feeling bad, that you present a version of yourself that is not authentic. Because while youโ€™re posting that youโ€™re a bad bitch, you feel like a fraud, think no one cares what you have to say, and that what youโ€™re doing isnโ€™t โ€œworkingโ€.โฃ
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So what do you think will happen when you start to see success? That โ€œfake it til you make itโ€ attitude will become even more anxiousness, worry, and lack of transparency/authenticity - because you believe that didnโ€™t get to where you were by being your true self.โฃ
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So youโ€™ll ...

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What If You Just Fully Fucking Accepted Yourself?

I recently hadย a client ask how she could change the habit of sleeping in, in order to become her highest self.โฃ
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Instead of giving her tips like creating an evening routine so you go to bed earlier, listening to subliminals while you sleep, rewarding yourself for waking up early - I asked her what the big fucking deal was with sleeping in.โฃ
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I encouraged her to ask herself what she was making it mean that she was sleeping in. ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต: Society tells us that sleeping in is lazy. But is that objectively true?

๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต: No. Lolโฃ
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We realized that she actually was a night owl, and was just shaming herself for not doing her work earlier in the day - even though she got plenty of work done when she slept in and worked in the afternoon/evening.โฃ
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My question to her, and to you, is the same.

๐—ช๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ? โฃ
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Your problem is that youโ€™re living under the Butโ€™s - But if I let myself sleep in, I wonโ€™t get any work done. But Iโ€™ve never had that kind of luck before. But my ...

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How to Stop Feeling Like a Fraud

Are you letting imposter syndrome run your biz?
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As I designed the template for the new version of my website, my excitement grew to anxiousness as I continued to add text, move pictures around, and hit Save whenever I finished a section. Thoughts began surfacing that I found all too familiar - Will anyone even buy this? Am I asking for too much? Who am I to charge others for my time? It was a mental dance that I knew all too well.ย After an hour, I shut my laptop down without finishing the page, feeling defeated.
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I present to you, imposter syndrome in its worst form;ย self-sabotage.
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Imposter syndrome is the psychological phenomenon in which a person doubts their abilities or accomplishments and has a persistent, internalized fear of being exposed as a fraud. This internalized fear is perpetuated by thoughts of inadequacy and overwhelm, and as an entrepreneur, I began to recognize it when I wasย levelling-up. For example:ย Being on podcasts as an interviewee and having to talk a...
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