Have you ever heard/gotten results for yourself & your clients and still felt like a fraud?
I have to ask - are you fully showing up as yourself?
𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞-𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬-𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧-𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐲𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫. You don’t feel good enough or capable enough, so you mould your personality, your actions, your services & prices, and your IG stories to please the masses, hoping not to be outed or criticized.
You’ve gotten so used to 𝘢𝘷𝘰𝘪𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 - judgement or criticism or feeling bad, that you present a version of yourself that is not authentic. Because while you’re posting that you’re a bad bitch, you feel like a fraud, think no one cares what you have to say, and that what you’re doing isn’t “working”.
So what do you think will happen when you start to see success? That “fake it til you make it” attitude will become even more anxiousness, worry, and lack of transparency/authenticity - because you believe that didn’t get to where you were by being your true self.
So you’ll be unable to take credit for your work and continue to feel like a fraud, all because you were afraid to fully be yourself - and once you created a relationship between not being yourself and achieving success, you told yourself “I have to be this way, or it won’t happen for me”.
𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐦𝐞 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐲 - 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐭. You can fully be yourself and see results. You don’t need to replicate someone else, or hide that you’re having an off week, or stop posting so much because you’re worried your audience “won’t like when you sell”.
It’s time for you to get results and fucking OWN them, knowing that you got those results for yourself and your clients, and feeling worthy in your capabilities as a business owner.
It all starts with undoing & releasing the stories and beliefs that make you feel like you can’t be yourself, make you feel like it’s not possible to make money this way, and make you feel like it’s easy for others, but difficult for you.
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