Have you ever heard/gotten results for yourself & your clients and still felt like a fraud?โฃ
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I have to ask - are you fully showing up as yourself?โฃ
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๐๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐-๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ-๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง-๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฎ๐๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ. You donโt feel good enough or capable enough, so you mould your personality, your actions, your services & prices, and your IG stories to please the masses, hoping not to be outed or criticized.โฃ
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Youโve gotten so used to ๐ข๐ท๐ฐ๐ช๐ฅ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ - judgement or criticism or feeling bad, that you present a version of yourself that is not authentic. Because while youโre posting that youโre a bad bitch, you feel like a fraud, think no one cares what you have to say, and that what youโre doing isnโt โworkingโ.โฃ
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So what do you think will happen when you start to see success? That โfake it til you make itโ attitude will become even more anxiousness, worry, and lack of transparency/authenticity - because you believe that didnโt get to where you were by being your true self.โฃ
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So youโll ...
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How can people pleasing affect confidence in your business? Yes, I'm talking about people pleasing when it comes to your friends, your family, your significant other, your full time job and how this all translates into your business. Iโm the best recovering people pleaser that you have ever seen. I would ensure that if somebody had something that was going on that would interfere with something I was doing, I would make a room for it always.
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I would stretch myself so thin and I would actually be super resentful about it. Hereโs where the people pleasing tendencies came from. I have gone to therapy and done a lot of work around my worthiness, and what I noticed was that I was people pleasing because I didn't want people to reject me or not love me because I wasn't accommodating to them. I grew up in a family where we all are bent over backwards for each other and I believe that tha...
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