Are You Fully Showing Up As Yourself?

Have you ever heard/gotten results for yourself & your clients and still felt like a fraud?โฃ
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I have to ask - are you fully showing up as yourself?โฃ
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๐๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž-๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ-๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง-๐๐ž๐ฌ๐ข๐ซ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐›๐ฒ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฎ๐œ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐š๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ. You donโ€™t feel good enough or capable enough, so you mould your personality, your actions, your services & prices, and your IG stories to please the masses, hoping not to be outed or criticized.โฃ
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Youโ€™ve gotten so used to ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ - judgement or criticism or feeling bad, that you present a version of yourself that is not authentic. Because while youโ€™re posting that youโ€™re a bad bitch, you feel like a fraud, think no one cares what you have to say, and that what youโ€™re doing isnโ€™t โ€œworkingโ€.โฃ
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So what do you think will happen when you start to see success? That โ€œfake it til you make itโ€ attitude will become even more anxiousness, worry, and lack of transparency/authenticity - because you believe that didnโ€™t get to where you were by being your true self.โฃ
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People Pleasing is Self-Sabotage | Imposter Syndrome

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How can people pleasing affect confidence in your business? Yes, I'm talking about people pleasing when it comes to your friends, your family, your significant other, your full time job and how this all translates into your business. Iโ€™m the best recovering people pleaser that you have ever seen. I would ensure that if somebody had something that was going on that would interfere with something I was doing, I would make a room for it always.

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I would stretch myself so thin and I would actually be super resentful about it. Hereโ€™s where the people pleasing tendencies came from. I have gone to therapy and done a lot of work around my worthiness, and what I noticed was that I was people pleasing because I didn't want people to reject me or not love me because I wasn't accommodating to them. I grew up in a family where we all are bent over backwards for each other and I believe that tha...

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