𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞.
We live in a world of the “just fucking do it” and the “you get what you work for” mentality. Discipline was seen as authoritative, that there was a “right” or “wrong” way to be.
You were taught that in order to get the results you wanted, you had to do things you didn’t want to do, but that you were “supposed” to do.
Does the phrase, “You can’t just do anything you want” ring a bell?
This particular story was one that I had to rewrite for myself.
The story that told me I couldn’t have fun and make money. That it had to be hard. That resting in bed all weekend was bad. That I had to be working on my business 8 hours a day to be successful. That swearing on the internet would make people not like me. That it was rude to talk about how much money I’ve made.
It all stemmed from punishing myself and making myself feel bad for being the way that I was.
And this made me think, “𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘥𝘶𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦, 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘵 𝘥𝘰𝘯𝘦, 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘺”.
But the months that I make myself a priority, the months I make it a point to love myself and everything I was doing online, the months that I cultivate thoughts of “everything I’m doing is AMAZING and WORKING and my audience is OBSESSED with it”.....those months are IT.
It’s time to drop the bullshit story that you can’t get sh*t done when you’re nice to yourself.
Nice doesn’t mean lack of productivity, nice doesn’t mean lazy, nice doesn’t mean ineffective.
When your content, your services, your work is built on a foundation of radical self-love and radical self-trust, you allow yourself to take full responsibility for your results.
And then imagine what you could create then??!!
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