Belief ๐ฎ๐น๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ yields results.โฃ
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A study was done on a first grade classroom and their teacher. At the beginning of the year, the teacher was told that all of the students were tested, and that 5 of the kids were gifted. At the end of the year, the students were tested again, and those same 5 children had exceptional results.โฃ
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But the teacher was only ๐ต๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ that those 5 children tested as gifted in the beginning of the year - they actually tested normal. HOWEVER, at the end of the year, those 5 children actually ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฅ test as gifted.โฃ
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Why? Because the teacher ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ that those 5 children were gifted. She believed in them and treated them as gifted, which yielded high-performing results.โฃ
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๐๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐.
Belief in who you are, what you sell, and who you help. Belief that itโs working. Belief that youโre on the track. Belief that youโre already worthy, and the rest will come.โฃ
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๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ต happens between knowing youโre worthy, and the manifestation, the clients, the program, the...
1๏ธโฃ You donโt ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ถ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ want what you say you want.โฃ
You say you want 10 clients, but do you actually want 10 clients? Subconsciously, you could be resisting your goal because you know you donโt have the time or the resources.
Or maybe you donโt feel good enough, so even though you say you want clients, you actually donโt know what youโd even do with them if you did have clients. โฃ
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2๏ธโฃ You donโt feel worthy of what you want.โฃ
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You have a goal to make $100K in your business this year - and even though so many people in this space have done that, you donโt think that you can achieve that based on what you think & feel about yourself.โฃ
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3๏ธโฃ You subconsciously think the thing you want will make you uncomfortable or it will be difficult.โฃ
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And then if you have to be uncomfortable or the tasks to get to your goal are perceived as โdifficultโ, youโre afraid that those negative feelings will lead you down the shame spiral or make you feel bad, so you avoid, avoid, avoid, even when you say you want...
I call myself an Imposter Syndrome Expert, but not ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต because I have a psychology-educated background and experience with people who struggle with it.โฃ
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๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐๐ก, that I know firsthand how feeling like an imposter can affect every part of your life.โฃ
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Each step towards my progress was made anxiously and with negative expectation, waiting for the other shoe to drop. โฃ
Waiting for someone to look at me and go, โYou donโt belong hereโ. โฃ
Waiting for this arbitrary โmomentโ where I would be called out and lose everything.โฃ
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My boundaries were non-existent.โฃ
I was judgemental of others to protect myself. โฃ
I worried about my clientsโ results because I thought it meant something about me. โฃ
I was always feeling scarce even when I started to make money, because I worried it would just ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ธ๐ข๐บ one day.โฃ
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The way to release these scarce thoughts & feelings so your business doesnโt feel like an emotional energy vacuum?โฃ
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๐๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค. Uncover, release, and rewrite. Bl...
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก.โฃ
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Why you should hold back, and play small.โฃ
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Why someone wouldnโt want to buy from you.โฃ
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๐๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ ๐๐ ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ.โฃ
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Because this is the meaning youโre giving your story. And because you whole-heartedly believe this, you hide. You donโt talk about your services how you wish you could. You donโt have boundaries with yourself or your audience/clients.โฃ
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Whereas someone with the exact same story as you, could be using it as her hero story. As to WHY sheโs good enough. As to why someone would want to buy from her, because sheโs unapologetically herself and embraces the parts of her that she knows other people can relate to.โฃ
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And sheโd be right, too. Because sheโs choosing for this story to empower her, instead of letting it keep her small.โฃ
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This is why ๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐จ-๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ (๐๐๐) is so powerful. NLP allows us to access those subconscious stories and beliefs and change the way we feel and think about the...
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For today's episode, we have an empowering sleep hypnosis. So I just want to remind everybody if you are operating any heavy machinery, if you are looking after any small children, if you are doing anything of the store that requires you to be awake, please do not listen to this until you are able to lie down, relax, and go to sleep.
Because a lot of people doze off during this hypnosis because it's a sleep hypnosis. So I wanted to include this empowering sleep hypnosis. I've included a morning meditation in the podcast before, and I thought that this would be a really cool pairing because when we have limiting beliefs, we are consciously thinking them. So to change them consciously is very difficult because we've spent years and years and years thinking these same negative thoughts about ourselves. And when that happens, we are creating neural pathways in our mind. And Hebb's Law st...
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Hey, Hey, everybody Hugo and I just got home from an amazing walk and I had a thought, and I really wanted to share this with you. And I didn't have time to go to my laptop or whatever, but I really wanted to share, because I know that this will be a great podcast episode. And I encourage you, If you ever get a hit of inspired thoughts to write it down, to write it down or to speak it into existence or start taking action on it right away. Because those inspired actions come from when you are letting them happen. Come from when you aren't trying to overanalyze or overthink the situation. I think I've talked about this on a podcast episode before, but we have certain brainwaves and these brainwaves are actually either conducive or non conducive to our patterns of thought. So in high beta, we are thinking, thinking, thinking, we are analyzing, we are over analyzing. We are doing all thi...
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Hey, Hey everybody. So I just want to celebrate something real quick. It's September 19th and I'm recording a couple of podcast episodes for next month for you guys. And I was checking out my QuickBooks and my business Jillian Parekh Coaching has hit a huge fucking milestone, and that is I have officially created a six figure business.
So I don't really count 2018 because I literally made $0. And it's not really on the books because I didn't exactly claim anything. I think I made like a hundred bucks, not even, but so I technically count 2019 as like the first real year in business. And last year I made $12,000. And at this point I have now made about $87,000 this year in 2020. So that means that I have hit six figures in my business in total, and I'm going to hit six figures in 2020 by the end of the year. And this feels really surreal to me. It also feels kind of uncomfortable shar...
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You guys have heard me talk about belief bridging, about retrain your brain, changing your thoughts, but why are we doing all of this? Why are we reframing our thoughts? What is the benefit of making our thoughts more positive instead of leaning more into that negative way of thinking that some of us end up thinking like? And of course, when you're retraining your brain, you don't want to focus on the negative because when you do, you create negative emotion and you create situations in which you're just focusing on the negative, which doesn't attract good things it attracts bad things, the things that you don't want. Right?
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But other than that very obvious reason, reframing allows you to open yourself up to opportunity instead of restriction. So you are training your brain to subconsciously look for the good, or look for the positive, or look for the lesson, instead of thinkin...
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Hey, everybody. Welcome back to the podcast. Today, we have a very special guest, Dielle Charon. She is @diellecharon on Instagram.
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Dielle is a sales expert, and she helps online coaches reach six figures using her proven strategies and formulas, and she has made over a hundred grand in eight months. And guys, she works full time like me. The reason why I even know Dielle is because Dielle was my very, very first coach. She was in my DMs in January 2019 when I was so nervous, like shitting my pants like I don't think I can invest. And she was like, "I know you can do it. I know that you can be successful." She was the very first coach that I ever worked with, and she allowed me to have my first launch ever that was super successful. I got four people into high ticket program, that I never could have imagined would even happen, and it was all because of Dielle.
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She has been...
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Today I wanted to talk a little bit about how not strategy got my business to 17-20K months, but how mindset got me to 17-20K months. I know that a lot of people who are very strategy oriented, it's so funny, because you see online, there's patterns of the way that people will do content and something that has come out within the last year, I want to say, is call out culture or polarizing opinions, which are amazing. I think that we all have our opinions. We all have things that we believe that other people may not, and that's what really attracts our people.
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But something that I see with business coaches is that you can't just be open to receiving and make this amount of money or whatever, you need to have the strategy and the structure behind it. I absolutely agree. The reason why my business has gotten to where it has is because I've hired coaches. I've implemented strategy....
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