Belief ๐ฎ๐น๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ yields results.โฃ
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A study was done on a first grade classroom and their teacher. At the beginning of the year, the teacher was told that all of the students were tested, and that 5 of the kids were gifted. At the end of the year, the students were tested again, and those same 5 children had exceptional results.โฃ
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But the teacher was only ๐ต๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ that those 5 children tested as gifted in the beginning of the year - they actually tested normal. HOWEVER, at the end of the year, those 5 children actually ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฅ test as gifted.โฃ
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Why? Because the teacher ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ that those 5 children were gifted. She believed in them and treated them as gifted, which yielded high-performing results.โฃ
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๐๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐.
Belief in who you are, what you sell, and who you help. Belief that itโs working. Belief that youโre on the track. Belief that youโre already worthy, and the rest will come.โฃ
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๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ต happens between knowing youโre worthy, and the manifestation, the clients, the program, the...
This year, on my 29th birthday, my high school sweetheart proposed to me and asked me to be his wife! Weโre so excited.โฃ
And you should know, Iโve waited foreverrrrr for this moment - we were 15 when we started dating. And about 5 years ago, I really started to wonder when the ring was coming.
It became a running joke in my family (Dustin was super happy about that ๐คฃ ), and I would think constantly about what it would be like once we were engaged and could plan our wedding.โฃ
I always knew the ring was coming, even when it wasnโt a physical manifestation yet. And when a couple years went by and I saw everyone else getting engaged, married, having kids (๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ด๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ!), I started to wonder when it would happen for me.โฃ
๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ข๐! ย And every little thing over the past 14 years didnโt matter anymore.โฃ
Your business is this way, too.โฃ
Every investment youโve made, every task youโve completed, every late night youโve spent doing content for the next day - itโs ...
The reason why it takes time to get to your next level is NOT because โit just takes timeโ.โฃ
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๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ง๐๐ฑ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐๐ฏ๐๐ฅ.โฃ
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You see your success as a flight of stairs that youโre climbing - it all feels very restricted, rigid, and linear.โฃ
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But it doesnโt have to be this hard. It doesnโt have to take such a long time.โฃ
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Every time you uncover another layer of why you feel unworthy, you remove a heavy brick from the wall of your unworthiness. You acknowledge that part of you, validate that part of you, and release - and you give yourself permission to level up.โฃ
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๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ง๐ญ. And then your second client. And then your first $5K month, and then your first $10K month.โฃ
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๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง ๐ฃ๐ข๐ค๐ฌ ๐ง๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐น๐ต ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ญ, ๐ช๐ตโ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ข๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ช๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถโ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ฉ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ด๐ถ๐ค๐ค๐ฆ๐ด๐ด ๐บ๐ฆ๐ต.โฃ
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๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐จ๐ง ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐๐ฏ๐๐ฅ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ข๐ญ. Youโll s...
๐๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐๐ค๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ๐๐ฆ.โฃ
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Itโs not something you do when youโre spiralling out of control.โฃ
Itโs not a trendy thing because everyone else is doing it.โฃ
Itโs not a one-way ticket to success because you see all the IG guruโs doing it.โฃ
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Itโs a ๐ฅ๐ข๐ช๐ญ๐บ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ค๐ฆ.โฃ
Itโs an ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต.โฃ
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Itโs more than just journaling and lighting some candles.โฃ
Itโs acknowledging the painful shit that comes up.โฃ
Itโs choosing the better thought, over and over again.โฃ
Itโs knowing that things are going to work out, even when it looks like they wonโt.โฃ
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Itโs feeling good and calm and flowy, and still doing your morning routine because you know that itโs what keeps you feeling good and calm and flowy.โฃ
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Itโs feeling safe in your body and safe in your business - and knowing that it takes the ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค to do this.โฃ
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Youโve always felt ๐ธ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ.โฃ
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Your opinions didnโt feel legitimate until they were validated by someone else.โฃ
Your ideas were kept secret because you thought they were stupid.โฃ
Your feelings felt unwarranted because you thought you had โno rightโ to feel that way.โฃ
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Youโre always looking for the right thing โ the right decision, the right path, the right message.โฃ
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Did it ever occur to you that the answer is to fully fucking accept yourself for who you are and then go from there?โฃ
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The problem isnโt that youโre wrong. The problem is youโre making everything about you ๐ฆ๐๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.โฃ
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Youโre allowed to be here. โฃ
Youโre allowed to take up space. โฃ
Youโre allowed to have your juicy, exciting ideas.โฃ
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You created your business to break free of the very thing youโre letting stand in your way - an employee mindset that follows the rules, constantly looks for guidance & validation, and believes that everything is happening to you instead of you being at cause for your life.โฃ
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When Iโve asked more seasoned entrepreneurs what they wish they focused on more in the beginning of their business, they alllll told me - ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐๐ญ. โฃ
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Because, it all comes down to the beliefs you hold about yourself, the world, money, and making money, honey.โฃ
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And it all comes down to the thoughts you have, how you respond to those thoughts, and then the stories you allow your thoughts to tell you.โฃ
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When you ๐ฅ๐ฐ๐ฏโ๐ต focus on mindset early on:โฃ
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โ youโll create limitations around what you can & cannot doโฃ
โ your strategy will fall flat because thereโs no belief or energy in the executionโฃ
โ youโll take every rejection personallyโฃ
โ youโll spiral and then disappear, lacking consistencyโฃ
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When you ๐ฅ๐ฐ focus on mindset early on, youโll:โฃ
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โจ break through limitations because you know everything can be figured outโฃ
โจ rebound from setbacks fasterโฃ
โจ de-personalize rejectionโฃ
โจ maintain consistency because you trust yourself & your pathโฃ
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Thereโs lots of ways you can incorporate mindset work into the beginn...
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก.โฃ
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Why you should hold back, and play small.โฃ
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Why someone wouldnโt want to buy from you.โฃ
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๐๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ ๐๐ ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ.โฃ
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Because this is the meaning youโre giving your story. And because you whole-heartedly believe this, you hide. You donโt talk about your services how you wish you could. You donโt have boundaries with yourself or your audience/clients.โฃ
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Whereas someone with the exact same story as you, could be using it as her hero story. As to WHY sheโs good enough. As to why someone would want to buy from her, because sheโs unapologetically herself and embraces the parts of her that she knows other people can relate to.โฃ
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And sheโd be right, too. Because sheโs choosing for this story to empower her, instead of letting it keep her small.โฃ
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This is why ๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐จ-๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ (๐๐๐) is so powerful. NLP allows us to access those subconscious stories and beliefs and change the way we feel and think about the...
Long story short, this is my hot take:โฃ
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And hereโs why - money doesnโt magically change the course of your thoughts.โฃ
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Letโs say that you think you feel like a fraud because you canโt book a client. You think to yourselfโฆ.โฃ
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โ Iโm not good enough.โฃ
โ It seems like I donโt know what Iโm doing.โฃ
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But then yay, you sign a client! Smooth sailing now, right?! โฃ
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Until the initial excitement wears off, and youโre thinking about your first call or your first project with your new client. You suddenly start to have the same thoughts, because what if you do a job and they donโt like it? What if youโre on the call with them and you donโt know what to say?โฃ
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๐๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ค ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ฅ๐ - and beliefs cannot instantly disappear simply from receiving a couple of PayPal notifications ๐โฃ
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If you feel like an imposter and think youโll be cured by someone signing a contract...I can guarantee you, itโs your thoughts...
Listen to this episode on theย From Imposter to Empoweredย podcast:
Today's episode is going to be a really great tool for you to use in order for you to get calm and get grounded, especially when you're in that inner imposter cycle. And that cycle can look a little bit like negative thoughts, which translate into feelings of unworthiness, which then contribute to your limiting beliefs and then turn into self-sabotage...and then itย cycles back to thoseย negative thoughts.ย
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So let's look through a cycle of imposter syndrome. Letโs say you're starting to have negative thoughts because you're looking at somebody else's story and you're thinking, โWow, this coach does the same thing as me and she's already hitting 10K months.โ
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Then you start feeling those feelings of unworthiness: โWhy haven't I hit 10 K months? Why aren't I good enough to be able to be a coach in this field and hit 10K months?โย
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Then you go to limiting beliefs: โWell, because ...
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