What If My Family & Friends Judge Me When I Start Showing Up Online?
Let’s say you’re a Mindset Coach who uses human design in their business.
If you grew up around people who used human design often and who thought running a coaching business from social media was the norm, you wouldn’t be constantly questioning if they think what you’re doing online is weird.
And that’s because your paradigm, which is defined as a pattern of being or a model, is different than what they’re used to.
And typically, people who aren’t committed to mindset work or personal development aren’t actively changing their paradigm.
There’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing, it’s just 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 from the paradigm that the people around you have used to.
When you’re around people who get what you’re doing, whether that’s in person or online, it’s less likely you’ll question if what you’re doing is 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 or 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨.
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Does Making Money Make You Feel Less Like An Imposter?
Long story short, this is my hot take:
NOPE!
And here’s why - money doesn’t magically change the course of your thoughts.
Let’s say that you think you feel like a fraud because you can’t book a client. You think to yourself….
I’m not good enough.
It seems like I don’t know what I’m doing.
But then yay, you sign a client! Smooth sailing now, right?!
Until the initial excitement wears off, and you’re thinking about your first call or your first project with your new client. You suddenly start to have the same thoughts, because what if you do a job and they don’t like it? What if you’re on the call with them and you don’t know what to say?
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 - and beliefs cannot instantly disappear simply from receiving a couple of PayPal notifications
If you feel like an imposter and think you’ll be cured by...
Stop Listening To Your Inner Imposter
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐢𝐭, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟𝐢𝐬𝐡.
You’re listening to your inner imposter and telling yourself that you’re not ready.
You’re thinking that once you get:
That next client that validates how great you are
That next certification
That next big number of Instagram followers
You can finally start 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 successful.
All the while, there is someone out there who truly needs what you have to offer - and you’re denying them of that, all because your 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘮𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.
But if you’re really certain about what you want, you have to do it scared.
You have to get on the calls, make the sales pitch, put out the content - even when it scares you. Even when it’s tiring. Even when you think no one is watching.
So yeah, maybe you’re afraid that taking the risk or going after the thing is going to cost you.
But truthfully….
What’s it costing you to 𝘯𝘰𝘵?
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Empowering Sleep Hypnosis
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For today's episode, we have an empowering sleep hypnosis. So I just want to remind everybody if you are operating any heavy machinery, if you are looking after any small children, if you are doing anything of the store that requires you to be awake, please do not listen to this until you are able to lie down, relax, and go to sleep.
Because a lot of people doze off during this hypnosis because it's a sleep hypnosis. So I wanted to include this empowering sleep hypnosis. I've included a morning meditation in the podcast before, and I thought that this would be a really cool pairing because when we have limiting beliefs, we are consciously thinking them. So to change them consciously is very difficult because we've spent years and years and years thinking these same negative thoughts about ourselves. And when that happens, we are creating neural pathways in our mind. And...
This Is Blocking Your Manifestations | Imposter Syndrome
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Hey, Hey, everybody Hugo and I just got home from an amazing walk and I had a thought, and I really wanted to share this with you. And I didn't have time to go to my laptop or whatever, but I really wanted to share, because I know that this will be a great podcast episode. And I encourage you, If you ever get a hit of inspired thoughts to write it down, to write it down or to speak it into existence or start taking action on it right away. Because those inspired actions come from when you are letting them happen. Come from when you aren't trying to overanalyze or overthink the situation. I think I've talked about this on a podcast episode before, but we have certain brainwaves and these brainwaves are actually either conducive or non conducive to our patterns of thought. So in high beta, we are thinking, thinking, thinking, we are analyzing, we are over analyzing. We are...
When You Feel Like You're Not Doing Enough | Imposter Syndrome
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Hey, Hey everybody. So I just want to celebrate something real quick. It's September 19th and I'm recording a couple of podcast episodes for next month for you guys. And I was checking out my QuickBooks and my business Jillian Parekh Coaching has hit a huge fucking milestone, and that is I have officially created a six figure business.
So I don't really count 2018 because I literally made $0. And it's not really on the books because I didn't exactly claim anything. I think I made like a hundred bucks, not even, but so I technically count 2019 as like the first real year in business. And last year I made $12,000. And at this point I have now made about $87,000 this year in 2020. So that means that I have hit six figures in my business in total, and I'm going to hit six figures in 2020 by the end of the year. And this feels really surreal to me. It also feels kind of...
What You Do Matters | Imposter Syndrome
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Hey, Hey everybody. So, today's podcast episode is about how your business is important and necessary. And that kind of imposter syndrome feeling that you may be getting from feeling like your work isn't necessary for the collective, especially if you're like an online coach or a virtual assistant or something like that.
I'm no stranger to the feeling of is my work really impacting people in a good way. Like what's, what's my work all coming to, you know what I mean? That, that weird kind of feeling of if our work is actually important to the world. So I hope you enjoy. Hello everybody thought I'd give you guys a little Monday pep talk. This is something that like, I think comes up in with basically every person that I coach and not even that, but it also comes up for me as well. And it's very unspoken. So you know how imposter syndrome is something that people don't always...
This is Why We Retrain the Brain | Imposter Syndrome
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You guys have heard me talk about belief bridging, about retrain your brain, changing your thoughts, but why are we doing all of this? Why are we reframing our thoughts? What is the benefit of making our thoughts more positive instead of leaning more into that negative way of thinking that some of us end up thinking like? And of course, when you're retraining your brain, you don't want to focus on the negative because when you do, you create negative emotion and you create situations in which you're just focusing on the negative, which doesn't attract good things it attracts bad things, the things that you don't want. Right?
But other than that very obvious reason, reframing allows you to open yourself up to opportunity instead of restriction. So you are training your brain to subconsciously look for the good, or look for the positive, or look for the lesson,...
Side Hustling to Six Figures | with Dielle Charon
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Hey, everybody. Welcome back to the podcast. Today, we have a very special guest, Dielle Charon. She is @diellecharon on Instagram.
Dielle is a sales expert, and she helps online coaches reach six figures using her proven strategies and formulas, and she has made over a hundred grand in eight months. And guys, she works full time like me. The reason why I even know Dielle is because Dielle was my very, very first coach. She was in my DMs in January 2019 when I was so nervous, like shitting my pants like I don't think I can invest. And she was like, "I know you can do it. I know that you can be successful." She was the very first coach that I ever worked with, and she allowed me to have my first launch ever that was super successful. I got four people into high ticket program, that I never could have imagined would even happen, and it was all because of Dielle.
...Scaling Your Business Requires This | Imposter Syndrome
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Today I wanted to talk a little bit about how not strategy got my business to 17-20K months, but how mindset got me to 17-20K months. I know that a lot of people who are very strategy oriented, it's so funny, because you see online, there's patterns of the way that people will do content and something that has come out within the last year, I want to say, is call out culture or polarizing opinions, which are amazing. I think that we all have our opinions. We all have things that we believe that other people may not, and that's what really attracts our people.
But something that I see with business coaches is that you can't just be open to receiving and make this amount of money or whatever, you need to have the strategy and the structure behind it. I absolutely agree. The reason why my business has gotten to where it has is because I've hired coaches. I've...