What If My Family & Friends Judge Me When I Start Showing Up Online?
Let’s say you’re a Mindset Coach who uses human design in their business.
If you grew up around people who used human design often and who thought running a coaching business from social media was the norm, you wouldn’t be constantly questioning if they think what you’re doing online is weird.
And that’s because your paradigm, which is defined as a pattern of being or a model, is different than what they’re used to.
And typically, people who aren’t committed to mindset work or personal development aren’t actively changing their paradigm.
There’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing, it’s just 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 from the paradigm that the people around you have used to.
When you’re around people who get what you’re doing, whether that’s in person or online, it’s less likely you’ll question if what you’re doing is 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 or 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨.
𝐑𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐞: The value of my services...
4 Signs You Are OVERCOMING Imposter Syndrome
Hey MTV , welcome to my crib (𝘈𝘒𝘈 this blog), where we talk a lot about symptoms of experiencing imposter syndrome….
But on this fine Friday, I wanted to shed light on the good shit that you may be experiencing because you’re doing the werk so, here are 4 ways that you’re overcoming imposter syndrome:
Someone says "no" to your offer and it doesn't ruin your day.
Sometimes, a no means not right now or not this offer. Also, just because an offer isn’t right for one person, doesn’t mean it’s not perfect for another. You are someone’s sparkly unicorn.
You don't feel the need to over-prepare for guest speaking gigs or coaching calls.
Of course, if you do better with notes, that’s totally okay - but you know your shit, and people usually want to hear what YOU think about your shit - so own that shit
You easily detach from your client's actions, because you know you're doing your best to help them and they have to do the work, too.
Client...
Does Making Money Make You Feel Less Like An Imposter?
Long story short, this is my hot take:
NOPE!
And here’s why - money doesn’t magically change the course of your thoughts.
Let’s say that you think you feel like a fraud because you can’t book a client. You think to yourself….
I’m not good enough.
It seems like I don’t know what I’m doing.
But then yay, you sign a client! Smooth sailing now, right?!
Until the initial excitement wears off, and you’re thinking about your first call or your first project with your new client. You suddenly start to have the same thoughts, because what if you do a job and they don’t like it? What if you’re on the call with them and you don’t know what to say?
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 - and beliefs cannot instantly disappear simply from receiving a couple of PayPal notifications
If you feel like an imposter and think you’ll be cured by...
Why You Need To Keep Showing Up
Recently, I launched The From Imposter to Empowered Program - my amazing team put together a wait list, and from that I signed 6 dream clients into the program.
Despite experiencing a family tragedy and having to put my business on hold for a week, I decided to publicly launch this program.
I wrote the posts, showed up powerfully, and did my thing - a tad half-assedly, because to be honest I shouldn’t have been launching during such an emotional time.
But I did it anyways, and 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭.
Even though I didn’t sign anyone new during the public launch, all the mindset work I’ve done this year led me to believe a couple of things:
my program is amazing and the clients I did sign are going experience life-changing results
all the work I did during this launch will benefit me in one way or another
if anything, I was visibly showing up & selling, and that’s always good for my audience to see
And then, the week the program started, when my launch...
Feeling Drained While Working Closely With Clients?
I was thinking about energy and how important it is for us to be energetic and feel good because it helps us maintain our businesses, helps us move forward and helps us with our motivation when it comes to our business.
The main reason I created the Energy Management Bundle is because I found that as I started working with more and more one-on-one clients...I was on calls so much and those were really draining me.
I was really taking on the energy of other people and I didn't know a ton about energy management or protecting and preserving my energy when I first started out.
Then when I started to go on more of a spiritual journey, I started realizing,
"Oh, there's things that you can do to maintain and preserve your energy."
And that's where The Perfect Launch Vault came from.
Then the Energy Management Bundle was born because I was working with so many clients and I was realizing how drained I was and how that was affecting my emotional energy. Because the thing is, when you're...
3 Ways You Can Start Tapping Into Your Highest Self
Do you roll your eyes when your coach tells you to access your higher self?
Maybe visualization doesn’t work for you
Maybe you have a hard time feeling the feels if you haven’t already accomplished your goal
So when someone tells you that how they’ve succeeded is by activating their highest self, you can’t help but dismiss that woo-woo bullshit and declare that it will never work for you.
Here's 3 ways you can actually start tapping into your highest self:
𝘎𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘢 𝘯𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯.
Identifying the traits, feelings, and characteristics of someone who has what you desire is easier if you don’t have to imagine it’s you and all of your contributing beliefs & stories.
𝘝𝘪𝘴𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦.
If there’s someone you admire that already has what you want, ain’t no shame in visualizing what they’re doing and how they may be feeling. In NLP this is called modeling, and is an effective way of replicating a...
Stop Listening To Your Inner Imposter
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐢𝐭, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟𝐢𝐬𝐡.
You’re listening to your inner imposter and telling yourself that you’re not ready.
You’re thinking that once you get:
That next client that validates how great you are
That next certification
That next big number of Instagram followers
You can finally start 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 successful.
All the while, there is someone out there who truly needs what you have to offer - and you’re denying them of that, all because your 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘮𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.
But if you’re really certain about what you want, you have to do it scared.
You have to get on the calls, make the sales pitch, put out the content - even when it scares you. Even when it’s tiring. Even when you think no one is watching.
So yeah, maybe you’re afraid that taking the risk or going after the thing is going to cost you.
But truthfully….
What’s it costing you to 𝘯𝘰𝘵?
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Empowering Sleep Hypnosis
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For today's episode, we have an empowering sleep hypnosis. So I just want to remind everybody if you are operating any heavy machinery, if you are looking after any small children, if you are doing anything of the store that requires you to be awake, please do not listen to this until you are able to lie down, relax, and go to sleep.
Because a lot of people doze off during this hypnosis because it's a sleep hypnosis. So I wanted to include this empowering sleep hypnosis. I've included a morning meditation in the podcast before, and I thought that this would be a really cool pairing because when we have limiting beliefs, we are consciously thinking them. So to change them consciously is very difficult because we've spent years and years and years thinking these same negative thoughts about ourselves. And when that happens, we are creating neural pathways in our mind. And...
This Is Blocking Your Manifestations | Imposter Syndrome
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Hey, Hey, everybody Hugo and I just got home from an amazing walk and I had a thought, and I really wanted to share this with you. And I didn't have time to go to my laptop or whatever, but I really wanted to share, because I know that this will be a great podcast episode. And I encourage you, If you ever get a hit of inspired thoughts to write it down, to write it down or to speak it into existence or start taking action on it right away. Because those inspired actions come from when you are letting them happen. Come from when you aren't trying to overanalyze or overthink the situation. I think I've talked about this on a podcast episode before, but we have certain brainwaves and these brainwaves are actually either conducive or non conducive to our patterns of thought. So in high beta, we are thinking, thinking, thinking, we are analyzing, we are over analyzing. We are...
When You Feel Like You're Not Doing Enough | Imposter Syndrome
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Hey, Hey everybody. So I just want to celebrate something real quick. It's September 19th and I'm recording a couple of podcast episodes for next month for you guys. And I was checking out my QuickBooks and my business Jillian Parekh Coaching has hit a huge fucking milestone, and that is I have officially created a six figure business.
So I don't really count 2018 because I literally made $0. And it's not really on the books because I didn't exactly claim anything. I think I made like a hundred bucks, not even, but so I technically count 2019 as like the first real year in business. And last year I made $12,000. And at this point I have now made about $87,000 this year in 2020. So that means that I have hit six figures in my business in total, and I'm going to hit six figures in 2020 by the end of the year. And this feels really surreal to me. It also feels kind of...